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You don't need a better partner.

You need a better dynamic.

Most people aren’t failing at love. They’re failing at polarity, presence, and nervous system regulation and that’s why you need our relationship coaching.

Relationship coaching for a better, balanced dynamic.

You’ve read the books.
Listened to the podcasts.
Tried to “communicate better” or “set boundaries.”

But deep down, the patterns haven’t changed.
You’re still stuck in the same loops — emotional shutdowns, power struggles, silent resentment, or feeling like you’re too much (or never enough).

The problem isn’t you.
The problem is the hidden chemistry between your nervous system, your hormones, and the unconscious roles you’re both playing.

At Polarizing Health, Relationship Coaching isn’t about learning more strategies.
It’s about embodying a new way of being in connection — where your body feels safe enough to stay open, your energy is clean and polarized, and love becomes sustainable again.

You’ll learn how to:

Take a look into the past and ask the right questions. Furthermore, find the key to discovering the root cause.

Emotion

Rebuild emotional safety in your body — so you don’t shut down or lash out under stress.

Balance

Restore healthy masculine/feminine polarity (regardless of gender) to reawaken attraction and connection.

Healing

Unhook from past trauma dynamics that keep showing up in your present relationship.

Learn

Communicate with clarity, truth, and embodied confidence — not reactivity or collapse.

Connect

Stop intellectualizing your relationship and start feeling your way back into alignment.

Define

Decode the subtle energetic patterns in your relationship, and consciously choose whether to lead, surrender, or recalibrate.
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"I am extremely grateful to have met Asa and am planning on continuing to work with him. His advice works, and he is super smart and one of the most open minded guys I know. I have been recommending him to people I know with health issues."

Zain Ruiz

I’d highly recommend Asa to anyone who is ready to take control of their health and stick to it. In the short time I’ve worked with Asa I’ve had an almost complete remission of my unexplained neurological symptoms, a huge improvement in my digestion...

Jessica L.

I was looking for answers after the death of my wife which was caused by the cancer of uterus and ovaries. I can say without any doubt that Asa’s method is the most healing and energy giving dietary method I have tried so far and I am planing to follow it for as long as I can.

Max Doronin

Deciding to include Asa along in my improvement journey was a great decision. Health suggestions given to me by Asa to heal myself made me feel a lot better and produced great results.

Marina V.

Asa always gives great advice when it comes to health and how to heal yourself. He is extremely knowledgeable. Asa is always encouraging and engaging when coaching people I to a better lifestyle.

Chrissy W.

TESTIMONIALS

See what our students are saying...

“I’m deeply appreciative for Asa, his genuine intentions, consistency, and when he readily and patiently reminds me of something that I keep forgetting or questioning. I value his out of the box thinking in regards to health, which allows for a well informed, clear, direct and holistic method for healing.”
Leigh Hope Eveille
While working with Asa and Polarity Health, we were able to significantly reduce my histamine sensitivity within a short window, I lost 30 lbs., my energy levels increased, my skin became clearer, more taught and shiny, and my vitamin D efficiency went up. The psychological benefits were vast too. My thought processes became sharper, my memory better and overall have been more able to be my feminine self.

C. Smith

“Thanks Asa for all the help you’ve given me ongoing with gut health, proper fasting protocols as well as polarity health. I continue to gain value from your support in these areas. I’m thankful to have discovered profound affects on my health through you. I recommend you to anyone who is serious about leveling up their relationships and overall well being.”
Kristien Woodcock
“I scoured the web for months trying to get to the bottom of my sleep issues. I cut out blue light at night, I started practicing better sleep hygiene, I cut out caffeine, I quit eating after 6pm. Nothing seemed to help. I asked you about sleep issues in a random thread and you recommended l-theanine and l-tryptophan. Since then my sleep has improved dramatically.”
Shane Bateman
“Your wisdom originally piqued my interests when I got into eating raw meat almost four years ago and you were eating raw chicken, a joy which I’ve only come to love this last year. The best personal influence was suggesting the dry fast on a hernia. I did eventually get it surgically repaired however, when I was on the dry fast for a day and a half it was non-existent. I could cough and not bring it out. Rock on Asa.”
George Vahamonde
“Asa is a natural healer and has helped me.more than you or.he knows I think lol alot of.his knowledge makes sense even tho were all different. Be grateful.to know someone like him cuz there ain’t alot of natural healers around. This young man alway gets my respect and appreciation. If nothing else a great apocalypse alli.😁”
Sue Ann
“When I first saw a post you had written about Food/Sugar Addiction and the microbiome I knew I had to follow you. I think it has been eye opening as a practitioner to see how much you’ve been able to share throughout the last few years. I am so glad I did. The knowledge I have been able to explore, listening to you, and the depth of your growth from the last few years has been nothing but positive! Your shift into feminine and masculine energy has been nothing short of incredible. I love reading the nuances of how men and women can better understand their own feminine/masculine qualities in a healthy space.”
Sarah J Reiff
“What I appreciate about Asa is that he always takes time out to answer my random health questions. He is so knowledgeable, and if he doesn’t know the answer he seeks out to find it. He is well educated on all types of topics : natural human diet, survival skills, opportunist theory, and polarity. What drawn me to following Asa was his openness and bravery to share his real life stories on all topics. He makes it where you can really trust his advice.”
Chrissy Wells
“Asa’s doing really innovative work in the space of realizing how changing hormones changes motivation, behavior, polarity, and therefore relationships. His experiences with changing sexual attraction preferences are truly groundbreaking. This needs to be studied. His approach of turning on masculine and feminine instincts (especially hormonally) as one of the main ways to solve relationship problems between men and women is also a superior paradigm compared to simply making some behavioral changes as advocated for in other groups. I like to keep geniuses on my radar. So I remain in orbit.”
Brian Kuenning
“Asa has given me lot of help and hope, very knowledgeable guy and there is more for me to learn from him 🙂”
Benjamin Bengtsson Gonzales

“I’m dating for the first time in 20 years and have a healthy relationship”

Kristi Derenne
“Helped me find a great MB practitioner !!”
Vee Jennee

This isn’t couples therapy.

This is nervous system-led polarity coaching — for individuals and couples ready to shift the energetic foundation of their connection.

Whether you’re single, dating, or partnered, your relationships will only rise to the level your body feels safe receiving love.
Let’s raise the standard. From the inside out.