Tired of dating your trauma?

This 2-minute quiz reveals the unconscious pattern keeping you stuck in power struggles and unavailable connections.

WHERE NATUROPATHY MEETS NEUROSCIENCE...
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Jessica L.

In the short time I’ve worked with Asa I’ve had an almost complete remission of my unexplained neurological symptoms, a huge improvement in my digestion (I definitely have fungal/parasites that still need to be addressed), and a severe drop off of anxiety.

RELATIONSHIP COACHING

Don't manage your partner. Start magnetizing them.

You’re not broken — you’re just out of polarity.

When the balance between masculine and feminine energy collapses, attraction turns into irritation, intimacy turns into distance, and communication becomes control.

Our relationship coaching helps you:

  • Rebuild trust and safety — without needing to over-explain or fix your partner.

  • Restore the natural push-pull of polarity (even if it’s been years).

  • Understand how your nervous system patterns create your relationship dynamics.

  • Break trauma-bonding loops and reconnect from a place of power, not pain.

Whether you’re dating, married, or single and repeating the same patterns, this is the work that creates actual connection.

INTEGRATION COACHING

When mind, body, and relationships are fighting each other… nothing works.

You’ve done the therapy. Tried the biohacks. Read the books. But something still feels off — like your body wants one thing, your relationships pull another, and your nervous system keeps sounding the alarm.

This is the work that restores your internal architecture:  the missing masculine or feminine energy that’s been distorting how you eat, speak, lead, and love.

Using a blend of naturopathy, neuroscience, and archetype work, we help you:

  • Rewire stress loops and restore your hormonal rhythm.

  • Reclaim emotional balance through somatic practices.

  • Align your internal masculine/feminine so your external world stops feeling chaotic.

  • Actually feel safe being powerful, soft, direct, honest, still, and fully alive.

HEALTH COACHING

Rebalance your hormones without the guesswork.

If your body feels like it’s fighting you — the fatigue, the brain fog, the cravings, the short fuse — it’s not a motivation issue. It’s misalignment.

Our Health Coaching doesn’t throw another “clean eating” plan at you. We look deeper. We assess how your nervous system, hormones, and lifestyle rhythms are working together — or pulling you apart.

Through a blend of naturopathy, somatic awareness, and strategic daily structuring, we help you:

  • Regulate cortisol, estrogen, and testosterone without pills or guesswork.

  • Calm chronic inflammation and nervous system burnout.

  • Sync your meals, sleep, and movement with your natural energy cycles.

  • Feel stronger, clearer, and more emotionally stable.

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The result?

A body that supports your goals. A nervous system that allows for intimacy. A life that doesn’t feel like a constant internal tug-of-war.

What our process looks like

Our process fuses neuroscience with naturopathic wisdom to align your biology, mind, and emotional patterns.

🔬 Step 1: Identify the Imbalance

Using your quiz results revealing your Developmental Archetype with optional functional lab testing, we uncover where you’re misaligned — hormonally, emotionally, and neurologically.

🌿 Step 2: Restore What’s Missing Through Connection

Whether you’ve lost your feminine flow or masculine grounding, we help rebalance your archetype by pairing you with a coach who can fill your feminine and masculine developmental gaps.

🧭 Step 3: Rewire the Way You Live

We rebuild your biology through gut repair, mineral correction, somatic release, and strength work — so your body stops holding the past at the cellular level, and starts building your future.

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"I am extremely grateful to have met Asa and am planning on continuing to work with him. His advice works, and he is super smart and one of the most open minded guys I know. I have been recommending him to people I know with health issues."

Zain Ruiz

I’d highly recommend Asa to anyone who is ready to take control of their health and stick to it. In the short time I’ve worked with Asa I’ve had an almost complete remission of my unexplained neurological symptoms, a huge improvement in my digestion...

Jessica L.

I was looking for answers after the death of my wife which was caused by the cancer of uterus and ovaries. I can say without any doubt that Asa’s method is the most healing and energy giving dietary method I have tried so far and I am planing to follow it for as long as I can.

Max Doronin

Deciding to include Asa along in my improvement journey was a great decision. Health suggestions given to me by Asa to heal myself made me feel a lot better and produced great results.

Marina V.

Asa always gives great advice when it comes to health and how to heal yourself. He is extremely knowledgeable. Asa is always encouraging and engaging when coaching people I to a better lifestyle.

Chrissy W.

TESTIMONIALS

Symptoms we commonly see

How do you know if integration coaching is for you? Easy. If you experience some or all of these symptoms:

Chronic fatigue or burnout

Anxiety and nervous system dysregulation

Low libido or mismatched desire in your relationship

Hormonal imbalances (PCOS, adrenal fatigue)

Communication breakdowns in partnerships

Emotional reactivity or disconnection

See what our students are saying...

“I’m deeply appreciative for Asa, his genuine intentions, consistency, and when he readily and patiently reminds me of something that I keep forgetting or questioning. I value his out of the box thinking in regards to health, which allows for a well informed, clear, direct and holistic method for healing.”
Leigh Hope Eveille
While working with Asa and Polarity Health, we were able to significantly reduce my histamine sensitivity within a short window, I lost 30 lbs., my energy levels increased, my skin became clearer, more taught and shiny, and my vitamin D efficiency went up. The psychological benefits were vast too. My thought processes became sharper, my memory better and overall have been more able to be my feminine self.

C. Smith

“Thanks Asa for all the help you’ve given me ongoing with gut health, proper fasting protocols as well as polarity health. I continue to gain value from your support in these areas. I’m thankful to have discovered profound affects on my health through you. I recommend you to anyone who is serious about leveling up their relationships and overall well being.”
Kristien Woodcock
“I scoured the web for months trying to get to the bottom of my sleep issues. I cut out blue light at night, I started practicing better sleep hygiene, I cut out caffeine, I quit eating after 6pm. Nothing seemed to help. I asked you about sleep issues in a random thread and you recommended l-theanine and l-tryptophan. Since then my sleep has improved dramatically.”
Shane Bateman
“Your wisdom originally piqued my interests when I got into eating raw meat almost four years ago and you were eating raw chicken, a joy which I’ve only come to love this last year. The best personal influence was suggesting the dry fast on a hernia. I did eventually get it surgically repaired however, when I was on the dry fast for a day and a half it was non-existent. I could cough and not bring it out. Rock on Asa.”
George Vahamonde
“Asa is a natural healer and has helped me.more than you or.he knows I think lol alot of.his knowledge makes sense even tho were all different. Be grateful.to know someone like him cuz there ain’t alot of natural healers around. This young man alway gets my respect and appreciation. If nothing else a great apocalypse alli.😁”
Sue Ann
“When I first saw a post you had written about Food/Sugar Addiction and the microbiome I knew I had to follow you. I think it has been eye opening as a practitioner to see how much you’ve been able to share throughout the last few years. I am so glad I did. The knowledge I have been able to explore, listening to you, and the depth of your growth from the last few years has been nothing but positive! Your shift into feminine and masculine energy has been nothing short of incredible. I love reading the nuances of how men and women can better understand their own feminine/masculine qualities in a healthy space.”
Sarah J Reiff
“What I appreciate about Asa is that he always takes time out to answer my random health questions. He is so knowledgeable, and if he doesn’t know the answer he seeks out to find it. He is well educated on all types of topics : natural human diet, survival skills, opportunist theory, and polarity. What drawn me to following Asa was his openness and bravery to share his real life stories on all topics. He makes it where you can really trust his advice.”
Chrissy Wells
“Asa’s doing really innovative work in the space of realizing how changing hormones changes motivation, behavior, polarity, and therefore relationships. His experiences with changing sexual attraction preferences are truly groundbreaking. This needs to be studied. His approach of turning on masculine and feminine instincts (especially hormonally) as one of the main ways to solve relationship problems between men and women is also a superior paradigm compared to simply making some behavioral changes as advocated for in other groups. I like to keep geniuses on my radar. So I remain in orbit.”
Brian Kuenning
“Asa has given me lot of help and hope, very knowledgeable guy and there is more for me to learn from him 🙂”
Benjamin Bengtsson Gonzales

“I’m dating for the first time in 20 years and have a healthy relationship”

Kristi Derenne
“Helped me find a great MB practitioner !!”
Vee Jennee

Meet your Integration coach, Asa

I’m Asa, and I’ve been where you are, grinding hard but missing a spark. Growing up without a dad, I had to rebuild my masculine edge from scratch, and now I’m here to help you light up yours. With 15 years of sparking lives, I use a unique blend of naturopathic and brain-based techniques to plug your gaps.
Whether it’s confidence, energy, or connections, integration coaching isn’t just talk; it’s your map to owning life, not just work. So let’s do this.